Potty and Toilet Training

Coping with potty training

Potty training doesn’t always go smoothly. Keep these tips in mind and go easy on yourself:

  • Try to stay calm. Your child will be looking to you to know how to feel and react, so let them know it’s OK.
  • Praise is the best teacher! Let them know they’ve done well, followed instructions or try something new.
  • Remember your child can only do what you explain. Give short, clear instructions so they know what behaviour you want from them.
  • Don’t make a fuss about accidents – we all make mistakes. Let your child know it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
  • Be patient. Encourage your child not to give up (and take to your own advice!).
  • Tell relatives and other carers about your potty training routine so your child doesn’t get confused by grown ups doing different things.
  • Don’t rush the process – potty training can take weeks or months. Keep repeating your routine as long as you need to.

If you find potty training challenging, remember you’re not alone – there are people and organisations who can help. In the meantime, just stick to your routine: however you feel about the challenges, let your child feel comfortable and calm with the process. It all comes together with time!

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